Weddings

at St. Mary Star of the Sea Parish

The Vocation of Marriage is the divine call to show forth the love of God for the world in the love of husband and wife for each other.

The bride and the groom at the wedding are themselves the “ministers” of this sacrament. For Roman Catholics, a priest or deacon must witness the marriage with two other witnesses (normally the best man and maid of honor).

The Church imposes numerous requirements on a couple to marry validly because the commitment of married love is so important for the couple and plays such an integral role in the sacramental life of the Church. Thus, an extensive pre-marital preparation program is in place which normally requires at least six months to complete.

  • It is not a requirement that a couple reside in St. Mary Star of the Sea parish to be married at our church.
  • Wedding rehearsals can be arranged upon request.
  • We welcome you to invite your own Catholic Clergy to celebrate the marriage if you like.
  • If you or your fiancé would like to apply for an annulment from a previous marriage we will guide you through the process 1 year before your wedding.
  • Wedding Music at St. Mary Star of the Sea
  • Diocese of Brooklyn Pre-Cana Class Schedule
  • Readings for Your Wedding

If you wish to celebrate your wedding at St. Mary Star of the Sea, contact Msgr. Guy Massie at the Parish House 718.625.2270 or info@smssparish.com as soon as possible after your engagement and certainly before any plans are made about a reception or other arrangements. If you plan to celebrate your wedding somewhere other than St. Mary Star of the Sea, the parish can offer pastoral assistance to you if necessary with your preparation and meeting the Church requirements.